Epic vs. Enough
Hi MML, it’s Cathy from Fiscally Chic with another post about finance with intention. If you’ve been reading my blog, you’ll know that I recently attended the inauguralÂ Financial Blogger Conference. It was an amazing experience. I made new friends, learned more aboutÂ blogging in a weekend than I have the in past year,Â and am inspired to make my blog even better for my readers.
One of the other takeaways from the conference was from the final speaker, Pat Flynn of Smart Passive Income. He challenged us to “Be EPIC!” Be noteworthy. Be amazing. Be shareable. Make the message epic. And make the delivery epic. The phrase “Be EPIC!” has been haunting my thoughts for the past few weeks.
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I also noticed that many of the male presenters talked about making more money, developing products, and/or growing your product and brand. While many of the blogs of female speakers were about saving money or being frugal. Yes, I generally fall into the second camp. So I got to thinking, I need to think like a guy more often. Cutting costs in my budget only gets me so far. The better way to increase my net income is by earning more income. I need to take ownership of my skills and do more. It’s OK to make money! I don’t want to just get by, I want to be epic!
It’s my experience that money and how you feel about it is an attitude. I have lived hand to mouth and abundantly. I find abundance much more fun and it’s truly wonderful to give back and share this abundance. I think you should be smart with your money, but do enjoy it!
In that post, I talked about being happy with “enough.” I’ve never been poor or had to live hand to mouth, and I don’t want to be. I don’t want to be greedy and ask for a mansion, private island,Â and expensive car. I just want enough money so that I don’t have to worry about it. I don’t really like budgeting. I’d rather make more money than I spend, instead of trying to spend less that I make. And yes, having more money means I can give back to others and my favorite charities. I noted in the commentsÂ that my husband and I are both savers by nature, but also enjoy some of those savings on nice dinners at restaurants, trips, etc. It’s all about finding the balance that’s right for you between saving and spending.
But this question is still in my mind. Does being happy with “enough” put limitations on myself? In thinking about differences between men and women, it seems like some women set wimpy goals in comparison to men. In the job world, part of the reason women don’t get paid as much as men is because women generally don’t expect to get paid as much as men. Women are told to be appreciative and not be greedy. But it seems like this line of thinking can cause women to undervalue themselves. And this thinking will cost women thousands of dollars over their professional lives. According to Forbes.com, “By not negotiating their salaries, many women sacrifice more than half a million dollars by the end of their professional lives.” That’s serious money.
As a business owner or employee, I challenge you to know your worth! Learn to negotiate. Take pride in your work. Really know your customer and offer them an amazing product. If you believe in yourself and have confidence, it will shine through in your work.
Here are a few amazing articles about earning more money:
- Wisebread: Earn More Money by Demanding It discusses negotiation tactics.
- Get Rich Slowly: Make More Money: How to Supercharge Your Income is a collection of the best tips from Get Rich Slowly (and other personal-finance blogs) about boosting your income.
Do you struggle with the balance between epic and enough?